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How to stop a panic attack: 7 steps that help right now

7 min read · Based on evidence-based methods (CBT)

If you're reading this in the middle of an attack — first, the main thing: what's happening is terrifying, but it isn't dangerous. It's a panic attack — a wave that will reach a peak and then subside. The peak usually lasts a few minutes, and then it eases. You've made it through hard minutes before. You'll make it through this one too.

⚓ Don't feel like reading? Open the Haven app and tap “I feel bad right now” — it takes you through the breathing by the hand, nothing to figure out.

1. Name what's happening

Tell yourself: “This is a panic attack. It's adrenaline, not an illness. It will pass.” Naming it breaks the catastrophic thought (“something terrible is happening to me”) that panic feeds on.

2. Don't fight the wave — let it pass

The key shift is from “stop it immediately!” to “ride it out.” Resisting adds fuel to the fear. Picture a wave: it rises, crests, and always falls. Your job isn't to hold it back — it's to stay standing while it passes.

3. Breathe with a long exhale

In panic, breathing becomes fast and shallow — which makes dizziness and tingling worse. Help yourself slow the exhale: inhale through the nose for a count of 4, gentle exhale for a count of 6. Put your attention on the exhale, without forcing.

Important: breathing is a way to ride out the wave more calmly, not an “off switch” for panic. If it doesn't help or makes you tense, just let it go and move to the next step.

4. Ground yourself through your senses (5-4-3-2-1)

Anxiety pulls your attention into your head — bring it back to reality:

Slowly and concretely. Attention busy with the real world has no spare capacity to spin up catastrophe.

5. Drop your shoulders and feel your support

Relax your shoulders, unclench your jaw. Feel the floor or chair holding you. You're not falling anywhere — your body is holding you.

6. Stay where you are (if it's safe)

Wanting to run is normal. But if you flee every time, the fear gets reinforced and the number of “places it might hit” grows. If you're somewhere safe, try to ride out the wave right there.

7. Be gentle with yourself afterward

When the peak passes, you often feel drained and shaky — a normal “comedown” after adrenaline. Drink some water, rest. You made it.

When it might not be panic. If there's chest pain radiating to the arm/jaw, fainting, symptoms that worsen with exertion, or if this is the first time ever — don't “calm down as if it's panic,” seek emergency care (911 in the US, or your local number). Better to hear “it was only panic” than to miss something serious.

Keep a calm harbor within reach

Haven walks you through breathing and grounding in a couple of taps — free and offline.

Open the app

This is psychoeducational content and not a substitute for professional care. If attacks recur, it's worth seeing a doctor or therapist — panic disorder is very treatable.